Consent: why women also need to be taught to respect it
The media is rife with stories about men and their need to understand the concept of consent in sexual relationships,…
What we have learned about sexual freedom from Ancient Rome
When you think of sexual freedom, the ideas of gay marriage, women’s reproductive rights, gender equality, and freedom of expression…
Is Bumble Now Worse Than Tinder?
I have this theory that Bumble’s the new Tinder, and Tinder guys have become more wholesome and serious. You get…
Valentine’s Day is a capitalist hellhole, and that’s the hill I die on
Opinions on Valentine’s Day are pretty split down the middle: it’s either the most romantic day of the year or…
I hate Grindr, but I use it anyway because I’m lonely
“Pics”, “looking”, “non-scene”, “hook-up”, “discreet top (or bottom)” and “hey buddy” are all common words and phrases derived from the…
Desire into Discourse: understanding the appeal of cross dressing
Cross dressing is the act of dressing in clothes that are intended for wear by the opposite gender, according to…
Desire into Discourse: Temple 22 is closing its doors
For those of you who follow me on social media or have come to see me recently, you’ll know I’ve…
The worst dating advice spilled by Redditors
It’s a rough world for dating. From navigating dating apps, to trying to spot a genuine match from a predator…
This is what it’s like to be in a relationship with a transgender person
As a young girl, it was regularly repeated to me that I would grow up, marry a man and have…
Why you shouldn’t be afraid to explore your kinks
Kinks really can be anything and may stem from anywhere, at any stage of life. They can subvert concepts that…